Tag: bitachon


  • Chanuka Lets you See in the Dark

    What I Found When I Opened a Letter I Wrote to Hashem Last Year On the first night of Chanuka this year, I opened a sealed envelope that had been sitting in my living room for a full year. I wrote it on the last night of Chanuka last year. I honestly didn’t remember what…

  • How to be Superhuman, Like Yosef

    When we look at Yosef’s life in Parshat Vayeshev, he almost seems superhuman. Sold by his own brothers. Taken to a foreign country. Forced into slavery. Thrown into prison for a crime he didn’t commit. Anyone else would collapse under the weight of it all. Yet Yosef stays steady. The Torah doesn’t describe anger, despair,…

  • The Real Reason Your Tefillah Feels Empty (And How to Fix It)

    You can be doing everything right… and still feel completely empty inside. You can be doing everything right… and still feel completely empty inside.I know because I lived it. And recently in Yerushalayim, a young man came to my table with a question that hit me so deeply it brought everything back — the numbness,…

  • Fear Isn’t the Opposite of Bitachon. It’s Where Bitachon Begins.

    Yaakov Avinu is finally returning home… Yaakov Avinu is finally returning home after twenty years in Lavan’s house. He has a family, wealth, and—most importantly—a clear promise from Hashem that He will protect him and bring him safely back to Eretz Yisrael. And then, just before the reunion with Esav, the Torah describes him with…

  • The Blessing Saved for Mashiach — And Why It’s Opening Now

    Yaakov and Eisav enter the world together… Yaakov and Eisav enter the world together, yet their lives grow in opposite directions. Yaakov sees the spiritual as a way to serve Hashem. Eisav sees the physical as the goal itself. When they meet, Eisav says, “Yesh li Rav” — I have a lot, but “a lot”…

  • How to Stay Sane With 50 Tabs Open in your Head

    You ever have one of those days where your mind feels like it has 57 browser tabs open, everything running slow, random music playing from who-knows-where… and you’re just trying to remember what you forgot? Deadlines.Messages.Notifications.Things you meant to do.Things you forgot to do.Things you’re avoiding doing. That was me a little while ago.My brain…

  • When Everything Suddenly Makes Sense: Seeing Your Life Backwards

    Chayei Sarah – Becoming Someone Who Can Laugh at the End Chayei Sarah opens with the words “Vayihyu chayei Sarah…” — and Chazal point us to something extraordinary. The Chasam Sofer, based on the pasuk “Yodeia Hashem yemei temimim…” (Tehillim 37:18), explains that the lives of the temimim, those who walk with wholehearted trust, are…

  • Avraham: The Ultimate Baal Bitachon

    Avraham Avinu showed us what bitachon really means.Hashem promised him that Yitzchak would be his future — “ki b’Yitzchak yikarei lecha zera,” your offspring will come through Yitzchak.And then Hashem commanded him to bring that very son as a korban. It made no sense.The promise and the command couldn’t coexist — at least not from…

  • Two Laughs. One Redemption: The Secret of Vayeira

    Both Avraham and Sarah laughed when they heard the impossible: that a child would be born to them in their old age.But their laughs were not the same. Avraham laughed out of joy — out of awe at the greatness of Hashem and the beauty of a promise being fulfilled.Sarah laughed out of disbelief —…

  • Avraham’s Secret: How to Grow When Life Gets Hard

    Have you ever noticed how the moments that changed you most were rarely the comfortable ones?The times you grew weren’t when life felt easy — they were when you were pushed, stretched, or forced out of your comfort zone. That’s how the story of the Jewish people begins — with two words: Lech Lecha.Hashem tells…